Start by Creating Your Strategy
The Divorce Position Statement
Welcome to The Divorce Vault. I’m Melissa Gragg, financial mediator and business valuation expert at ValuationMediation.com. If you’ve been told you its “impossible” to mediate with a toxic spouse…
The Divorce Vault is where that story ends.
Inside The Divorce Vault you’ll learn a methodical system to prepare a clear Divorce Position Statement, anchor a realistic settlement offer, and lead negotiations with evidence - not emotion. Start with our step‑by‑step voice‑memo workflow, auto‑generate a clean outline with AI, and use our templates to brief your team or mediator in minutes. Download the starter guide and begin today.
Welcome to the NEW system for getting divorced with strategy.
The Divorce System™
Settlement Offer (Excel Spreadsheet)
Settlement Offer (Excel Spreadsheet)
Hi, I’m Melissa! One of the members of Divorce Allies, where we help people rebuild life after divorce. We just created the most amazing product for you!
Power Moves in Divorce: Your Roadmap to Settlement
Imagine creating the power moves in your divorce - leading your team, setting the tone, and moving confidently toward a full financial settlement.
We’ve built the Power Pack Guide to Settlement Offers to help you take control of the process from start to finish. Inside, you’ll find everything you need to create your:
🧭 Position Statement - your story and strategy in one clear document
💰 Settlement Offer - the proposal that gets you out of the system faster
📊 Financial Spreadsheets - the same tools we use in real cases
(valued between $5,000 and $20,000)
This is the exact roadmap we use to settle complex divorce cases — now simplified so you can do it yourself.
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This guide walks you step-by-step through creating your position statement, transforming it into a settlement offer, and using our proprietary spreadsheets to calculate and balance your property division.
Inside, you’ll learn how to:
Understand your financial disclosures and organize them into a clear balance sheet
List your assets, debts, and separate property in one place — from your home and vehicles to retirement accounts and business interests
See how different division options can still lead to a fair and equal outcome
Add notes and footnotes to turn your spreadsheet into a professional settlement proposal
These tools are the same ones used in high-level mediation and valuation cases (valued between $5,000–$20,000), now made available for your personal use.
You’ll also receive:
A blank editable spreadsheet and a sample version for reference
Video tutorials showing how to enter and analyze your data
A discounted 90-minute strategy session to review your numbers and fine-tune your offer
If you’re ready to move toward settlement - not more court - start by downloading and completing your spreadsheet, and joining the Divorce Allies community for guided support, live workshops, and mediation prep.
Resources For Growth
Resources For Growth
Hi, I’m Anna! One of the members of Divorce Allies, where we help people rebuild life after divorce. I’m passionate about helping our members regain their financial footing and, most importantly, rediscover their purpose.
Explore my featured products and trainings, from practical guides that help you start earning again fast, to wellness journals designed to support reflection and healing during your transition. Let’s get you moving forward — financially, emotionally, and purposefully.
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🌙 The Thought Leader Blueprint & Content Creation Loop
Turn your ideas into income - without the burnout.
This 4-part video + workbook series walks you step-by-step through creating digital products, mastering AI tools, and building a brand that works while you rest.
💡 What’s Inside:
Module 1: Find Your Voice & Core Message
– Define your brand themes, learn how to “train” AI to sound like you, and clarify your tangible promise.Module 2: Build Your Visibility Funnel
– Turn blogs and posts into a cohesive marketing system that attracts the right audience.
📘 You’ll Get:
4 video lessons (implementation + strategy)
Copy-and-paste AI prompts for every stage
Real examples from our own projects (The Divorce Vault, Anchor the Deal, and more)
✨ Perfect for coaches, creators, and thought leaders ready to turn their expertise into visibility, products, and legacy content.
The Divorce Vault. Roadmap for The Divorce System™
A complete alternative to the court system.
A 6-phase framework where women and couples move through:
Discovery – Emotional stabilization, truth-telling, safety, and documentation.
Disclosure – Gathering and understanding financial and legal information.
Definition – Building the Position Statement + Property Statement.
Dealmaking – Anchoring the offer, mediation prep, and negotiation strategy.
Defense – Deposition, expert testimony, or high-conflict strategies if needed.
Design – Post-divorce independence, healing, and rebuilding your new life or business.
Here at The Divorce Vault, we work with women and couples, providing the roadmap and steps to guide your divorce to settlement. Download the Video Tutorials, Guidebooks, ChatGPT prompts and more to get settled in less than 6 months.
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Transform your divorce with our comprehensive guides, video tutorials, ChatGPT prompts and more.
What We Do
We’ve spent decades behind the scenes helping women organize their cases, negotiate their settlement offers, and walk away with what truly matters. Now, The Divorce Vault™ puts that same expertise in your hands.
With 50+ hours of step-by-step content, you’ll learn how to create your position statement, anchor your deal, plan for mediation, and finalize an agreement that benefits your whole family.
When you’re ready, we’ll guide you in building your next chapter - whether it’s starting a personal brand, selling eBooks, or healing through retreats.
