Guide for Creating Your Strategy - The Divorce Position Statement

Welcome to The Divorce Vault. I’m Melissa Gragg, financial mediator and business valuation expert at ValuationMediation.com. If you’ve been told you its “impossible” to mediate with a toxic spouse…this is where that story ends.

Inside The Divorce Vault you’ll learn a methodical system to prepare a clear Divorce Position Statement, anchor a realistic settlement offer, and lead negotiations with evidence - not emotion. Start with our step‑by‑step voice‑memo workflow, auto‑generate a clean outline with AI, and use our templates to brief your team or mediator in minutes. Download the starter guide and begin today.

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Here at The Divorce Allies, we work with women and couples, providing the roadmap and steps to guide your divorce to settlement. Download the Video Tutorials, Guidebooks, ChatGPT prompts and more to get settled in less than 6 months.

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We’ve spent decades behind the scenes helping women organize their cases, negotiate their settlement offers, and walk away with what truly matters. Now, The Divorce Vault™ puts that same expertise in your hands.

With 50+ hours of step-by-step content, you’ll learn how to create your position statement, anchor your deal, plan for mediation, and finalize an agreement that benefits your whole family.

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